Two people cannot captain the same ship. That is the line the marriage post turns on, written by somebody who lived through a marriage where every disagreement became a fight about who was in charge, and who watched the shouting close the conversation down completely.
The post about waiting for a proposal is blunter than most readers will find comfortable. The argument runs that he does not marry you because he never has to, since nothing about the arrangement costs him anything, and that the pursuing stopped the moment you started doing it for him.
There is a piece asking whether spirituality inside a relationship requires religion, and it answers no while taking both versions seriously.
The most unusual post addresses women in love with somebody in prison, and it treats them as adults rather than as a cautionary tale.
Read the marriage post if the same argument keeps repeating in your house under different names, and the proposal one if you have been waiting a long time.