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Stephanie Deltor

Stephanie Deltor writes a series of letters addressed to her future husband, listing specific requirements, patience with her perfectionism, genuine faith, real commitment before declaring love, rather than a vague wish list, and a companion poem written as an angry letter to a boy who broke every promise he made her over four years.

That same directness shows up in a post about learning to open up to people, where she admits picking up a fear of rejection somewhere along the way and being her own harshest critic when deciding what thoughts are safe to share out loud. The weight loss and depression posts stay more conventional, covering goal setting and diet in the register of a general self-help article rather than her own specific story.

A Christmas wish list post written directly to the holiday itself is playful rather than serious, listing twenty five things a young woman might want without pretending any of it is urgent.

The future husband letters and the poem carry the rawest, most personal writing on this blog.

Great Ways To Lose Weight!

Sep 18, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Just my advice to you on weight loss, Sometimes it seems like weight loss is beyond what we think we can do. You start off feeling extremely pumped about your weight loss…
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Chase Away The Blues With This Dealing with Depression Advice

Sep 18, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Dealing with Depression is Hard let’s just face it. And it is SO much harder to do it all alone! Here’s some dealing with depression advice to make it better for you.…
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Getting in Shape

Sep 17, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Great Advice for Getting in Shape     Getting motivated might just be the most critical thing you can do to reach your physical fitness goals and getting in shape. Setting goals…
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Twelve Tips on Keeping Up Your Fashion

Sep 17, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Twelve Tips to Improve Your Personal Fashion 1.Dressing well should mean nothing but happiness throughout your day. If you are dressed in fashion, when you pass a mirror, you will smile at…
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Your Christmas Wish-list This Year

Sep 5, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Dear Christmas Wish-List,  Christmas is just around the corner and I wish you all the very merry best.  As we prepare for the holiday festivities of lighting up our cozy homes with…
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How to Open Up to People

Sep 3, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Dear My Future Husband, I want to Open Up with You  Get me tell you my secrets, which are the thoughts I would never say out loud.  Get me to open up. A…
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Attention to All Men Out There!

Aug 31, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Dear My Future Husband, Accept me for everything that I am. Embrace the silly, the perfectionism, the paranoia, the wisdom, the patience, the creativity, the randomness, the seriousness, and the passion. Love…
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A Poem about Love

Aug 30, 2012 · Stephanie Deltor
Dear the Boy I Love, An Angry Letter to You…  At first… -you said that there was going to be a “we” -you said that I was perfect -you said that you…
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