Why a blog post is not getting indexed is a problem that stops people cold, and Larry Rivera writes the post that explains it rather than telling you to be patient. His piece on commenting properly on other people's blogs is the companion, and it treats that as a craft with etiquette rather than as a place to drop a link.
His daily motivation run is the spine of the blog. Short posts, one a day, on starting over, on doing slightly more than usual, on being closer than you think. They are repetitive by design and they work that way.
He answers the accusation that everything online is a scam directly and twice, which somebody in his position has to.
Around all that sit a reef aquarium build, collectible cards, parenting through consistent discipline, and a beach an hour from the noise.
Read the indexing post if your writing is invisible, then take one motivation post a day.