Three years single, forty, and suddenly noticing her libido has come back. Selina writes about that with no coyness whatever and no apology, and the register sits closer to a friend talking than to anything produced for an audience.
She turns down a straightforward proposition and then writes about what she learned from being wanted, which makes a more interesting piece than either the yes or the no would have. Her conclusion concerns the difference between being desired and being courted, and she is specific about wanting the second one.
There is a very funny account of a boss spotting a well known erotic novel on her desk and announcing it to the entire office, and a post on body image that arrives somewhere near peace without pretending the insecurity has gone anywhere.
She uses tapping as a technique for working through abandonment and rejection, and writes about it plainly.
Come here if you are single, past thirty five, and tired of writing that treats your situation as a problem needing a solution.