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Selina

Three years single, forty, and suddenly noticing her libido has come back. Selina writes about that with no coyness whatever and no apology, and the register sits closer to a friend talking than to anything produced for an audience.

She turns down a straightforward proposition and then writes about what she learned from being wanted, which makes a more interesting piece than either the yes or the no would have. Her conclusion concerns the difference between being desired and being courted, and she is specific about wanting the second one.

There is a very funny account of a boss spotting a well known erotic novel on her desk and announcing it to the entire office, and a post on body image that arrives somewhere near peace without pretending the insecurity has gone anywhere.

She uses tapping as a technique for working through abandonment and rejection, and writes about it plainly.

Come here if you are single, past thirty five, and tired of writing that treats your situation as a problem needing a solution.

Abandonment, rejection and EFT

Sep 12, 2013 · Selina
I came across this Emotional Freedom Technique today about the raw emotions of feeling abandoned, rejected and the potential to be loved by someone long term. I really like this video because…
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Why, hello LIBIDO!

Aug 29, 2013 · Selina
That’s right, I have suddenly found my libido again.  I seriously thought I’d lost it. But, I am happy to say, she is back and ready for ACTION! Of course, that doesn’t…
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He’s just not that into YOU

Aug 25, 2013 · Selina
“Don’t waste the pretty,” is the one line that I cannot forget from having read the book he’s just not that into you all those years ago. 2006 seemed to have been…
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I want romance not just heavy petting thanks

Aug 24, 2013 · Selina
I’ve been single for three years now.  And if you’ve been reading my blog, you know I just been hit on for an ‘attempted interlude’ with a rather horny guy who wanted…
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The funny thing about reading erotic romance…

Aug 23, 2013 · Selina
Novel – Erotic Romance Fiction Yesterday, as I was packing up my desk to leave work for the evening, I had to rearrange my bag, which meant that the book that I…
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Feeling insecure about my body but it’s okay

Aug 23, 2013 · Selina
Cameron Russell: Looks aren’t everything. Believe me, I’m a model. A little time on YouTube and I stumbled upon this TED Talk by Cameron Russell who is a genetically beautiful woman and…
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