Ways To Become More Positive
Restored from the Empower Network archive (2011–2017), lightly edited to meet our current advertising standards. Views are the original author’s.
Ways To Stay Positive
Positive attracts more positive in your life and negative attracts more negative, right? So how can you stay positive 99% of the time?
Staying positive most of the time is very hard when you first start getting into Law of Attraction. You have been program (sort of speak) to be and think mostly negative. You have a great big ball of negative energy and a small ball of positive energy.
Time To Change That Negative Ball Of Energy to Positive
You can start by doing exercises to become more positive. The first exercise I would suggest is write down everything in your life that you are grateful for.
You may say well…I am about to lose my house, my car doesn’t run, I don’t have a job, so how can I actually feel grateful at this time?
I know it is hard, but you would have to dig deep. Here are some things you can be thankful for:
- I am happy and grateful I woke up this morning
- I am happy and grateful I have my health
- I am happy and grateful that I can read
- I am happy and grateful that I can learn
- I am happy and grateful I can walk
- I am happy and grateful I can see
- I am happy and grateful that I can feel
- I am happy and grateful that I have great children
- I am happy and grateful that I have a great spouse
- I am happy and grateful for my pet who loves me unconditionally
When you write your “happy and gratefuls” you need to try to really feel it. Have you really thought about the people who can not walk? You can walk. Rejoice.
Do you realize how hard it would be to go through life without being able to read? Everything would be totally confusing, right? You can read this post.
Once you start feeling truly grateful you will attract more things and events into your life to be grateful for.
Does This Really Work?
Let me tell you a story. One day my mom called and asked my wife if she was watching Oprah. She turned it on, and they were talking about the book ‘The Secret’. I immediately ordered the book and dvd for us.
I had read positivity books in the past. At this time, I had not read one in years. The book arrived and my wife read it and said yeah right. In fact, she wouldn’t even finish the book.
You see, she was in a deep depression at the time. I would come home, and she would be laying on the couch watching sad movies. She didn’t want to do anything. She was miserable. Nothing I tried to make her feel better worked.
One day, I told her I couldn’t live like this. She had to do something. I told her I loved her, but I couldn’t live like this.
A couple of days went by and she picked up ‘The Secret’. She told me later that she told herself, “Well Christi, what do you have to lose.”
The Outcome
She started writing her “happy and gratefuls” everyday. She is human and she did miss a day here and there, but for the most part she wrote them everyday.
She started smiling a lot more. I could tell she felt so much better. She told everyone they needed to read ‘The Secret’. In fact, she bought about 10 of them and gave them away to people she thought it would help.
Well I guess you can see how this one exercise can change your negative ball of energy to positive. But there is more exercises you can do. I will discuss more of them in the next post.
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Your friend,
Jaden Daniels
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PS. I am Happy and Grateful for my wife. She hung in there and changed her life for the better.