Don`t Be a Victim…

Restored from the Empower Network archive (2011–2017), lightly edited to meet our current advertising standards. Views are the original author’s.

Hey! I myself enjoy playing the victim role at times – you know a “pity party” where I am (without much success) trying to convince others about how bad life is because I`ve  tried my very best and…

“It`s so unfair” bla bla bla…

I must admit that this video is very entertaining but do you think that this dog has any chance to get the kind of meal he really wants if he puts all his hope in the people around him?

Victim or Self-Determined?

We all know that being Self-Determined is the ONLY safe attitude to dress ourselves with to achieve what we want.

It includes taking responsibility on ALL OF OUR ACTIONS and surprisingly, the actions of others around us. If you do not, you will have to pay for closing your eyes one way or another.

Just realize in what mess a lot of Americans are financially because we did not fully take responsibility on some weird actions being done by the Government.

Being Self-Determined is the
Way to Go for the Future You Want…

Being Self-determined is: taking full responsibillity on what you know you need to do to get what you wish to have.

Taking full responsibility is not letting any one else than yourself between you and the actions that need to be done.

If you listen to a lot of people talking about their lives you will realize that many are saying that when bad stuff happens, it was someone`s else fault but when good stuff is occuring, they are the ones that took the decision or made the actions that led to it. Isn`t that strange?

The way you want your future to be relies entirely on you. How sefl-determined you are will make all the difference as far as the length of time with which you will achieve your goals.  What is super cool about this is that when you are successful, you can fully acknowledge yourself.

Doing so makes you enjoy life to the fullest. You have all the reasons in the world to be proud and you do not need the approval of anyone.

You know what you know and you know that you are the one entirely responsible for you happiness. or…

 Go for it!

I let myself down not being self-determined

I sure do not want to be moralistic in any ways. I am communicating this to you today as I did not take full responsibility on something I knew was occurring in my life. I closed my eyes. Guess what I have to spend time on now? Yep! there is no way out. The situation caught up to me.

It might seem difficult at times to be self-determined and assume the responsibility on handling what needs to be handled but it is ALWAYS much easier than having to spend time, energy and sometimes a lot of money, to repair what could have been under your control if you did not count on anyone else.

I do not want you to think that having good friends that will help you when you are in need is not a good thing. It is! But it is also your responsibility to be self-determined  in your choice as far as your association with others around you.

Again, don`t you think it is “funny” when you hear someone say that their ex-spouse is a …. Who made the choice?

When putting the fault on someone else, you are giving that other person all the power.

I must admit that I am really glad that I have been self-determined enough (despite the jealousy of some) to associate myself with the right people in regards of my financial future. It is something that I can be proud of and the inner feeling of knowing what I did is pure pleasure.

POWER UP YOUR SELF-DETERMINISM
ASSOCIATE YOURSELF WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE
GET THE LIFESTYLE YOU WANT…

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