You Can Be A Victim Or You Can Be Successful! But You Can’t Be Both.
Restored from the Empower Network archive (2011–2017), lightly edited to meet our current advertising standards. Views are the original author’s.
You Can Be A Victim Or You Can Be Successful! But You Can’t Be Both.
When it comes to being a victim you will always chose whether to remain a victim or break free even if it is only mentally. And come out on the other side smelling of roses, the choice is entirely up to you. Of course there are many different things associated with being a victim and although this article may not refer directly to 100% Per cent of these cases It certainly will benefit the majority of them..
Tony Robbins Ted Talk
What would a victim say it’s not my fault.. This is a defensive statement and in some cases things that may happen to you may not be entirely your fault.. But the attitude you take to what happened is your choice the majority of the time.. I can remember a very low stage in my life that happened some time ago.. I am normally the last person to take on the victim mentality, but when I think back to it I was being a victim…
Sometimes the people who need to change the most are the last ones to know about it!
I had gone through some financial challenges, relationship challenges,bereavement challenges and I thought I needed to make more money… To turn things around but really it wasn’t about my money it was about the mindset I had towards the things that had just happened to me..
Q Jim Rohn : Don’t Bring Me Your Need Bring Me Your Seed
We as human beings can be very needy people. We feel the need for attention, The need for love, We also feel neediness towards having material things. But it is not our need that brings us what we are looking for it is our attitude and actions that bring those rewards into our lives. When people get themselves into a desperation mindset what they really want. Dissapears yes it runs the other direction as if the plague is after it.
So if you need more money and a home and start begging for it on the street people start crossing over the road to avoid you. If you are a farmer a need crops you don’t just walk over to your field and say. I have no money right now but If you grow me a a full field of crops this year I promise I will buy some good seed next year and plant them… That is not how life works…
Having an online business I tend to meet people with this mentality every day, and until they shift that victim mindset there is no room for success. Many people want to get everything for Free to make money and then once we make money we will pay for things. Then another person comes and learns from them and gets free tools trainings and resources off them but of course they don’t make money because everything is free. ???
Zig Ziglar Prime the Pump
Back To My Story I Am Not Going To Bore You With All The Details Of It ..
The Bottom line was I messaged a friend of mine and top Online Business owner and told them what was happening. I asked have you any products you are selling right now that are working that I can be an affiliate of because if I don’t make more money and add a couple more income streams fast blah blah blah will happen.
At this stage my needy self was probably asking for some sympathy, asking for direction and was hoping for him to say well you could do this and this.. But to my surprise I got a completely different response.. You Are Being A Victim.. If You Keep On Being A Victim Things Are Going To Get Worse Much Worse.. You Are Responsible For Where You Are Today Here Is What You Have To DO.. If You Want To Change IT…
Write Down 20 Things You Are Grateful For.
Write Down 20 Things I Love About Myself
Write Down 20 Ideas for A Killer Business
Narrow Them Down To Three…
Then Choose The Best Killer Business Idea And Focus On Making It Happen…
I followed these steps and within a few days my life started to transform. I started to immerse myself in learning techniques to improve my selling skills as well. And started being grateful and appreciating what I already had.. That was the start of some great transformations in my life…
Another great expression I heard from another Internet Marketer on a recent webinar I listened too was.. Is practise not complaining for 21 days… Because when you complain you become a crap magnet… The more you complain and whine the more negativity and bad things you will attract into your life… By being a victim and allowing yourself to remain one you are also being a crap magnet..
So just decide When Are You Going To Stop Playing Or Being The Victim.. And Take Control Of Your Life Your Income Your Finances…
One thing I can guarantee you right now if you are playing the victim being needy complaining and blaming other people for all of the problems in your life. There is lots more waiting around the corner to come. So either way you decide who you do want to be.. And stop focusing on what you don’t want..
Because You Will Always Get What You Focus On..
So If You Are Focused On Getting Out Of Debt … You Will Get More Debt. If You Are Focused On Why People Don’t Like You… You Will Get More People That Don’t Like You.. If You Focus On Why You Can’t Get Any Customers In Your Business.. You Will Continue Not Getting Any Customers In Your Business.. If You Focus On Why Things Won’t Work.. Then They Will Continue Not To Work…
Hope You Are Getting The Idea Now!!!
Ideas On What You Might Want To Focus On
1. Focus On Your Dream Holiday Home
2. Focus On Your Dream Car…
3. Your Dream Family..
4. The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams..
5. Hitting 6 Figures A Month Profit In Your Business
6. Setting Up Your Dream Business.
7. Going On That Round The World Dream Trip…
8. Focus On Being Happy… (Instead Of Complaining).
Hope This Gives You Some Ideas…. Of what you want in your life…. Of course you can make up your own ones or you might like some of these…. 
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