Mindset training
Restored from the Empower Network archive (2011–2017), lightly edited to meet our current advertising standards. Views are the original author’s.
Remember when you were a kid and you fell on your bike and scraped your knees really bad. You were probably bleeding down your legs by the time you limped home with your bike. Your mom probably washed up your wounds and put on an antiseptic or some sort of antibiotic then bandaged you up. It made you feel better as she dried your tears but the wound still hurt…only not as much. You may also have limped around for days or maybe even a week as the wound healed.
We all know the healing process and that it takes a while for your wounds to heal. Not only physical wounds need healing but emotional wounds need care and time to feel the effects of the healing process. Most of us walk around for a lifetime without the healing effects on our psyche.
Isn’t it time that you went through that healing process. This could be the very thing that is keeping you from success.
Some people don’t believe in hypnosis; they don’t think that it works. Well, what about self-hypnosis or what I call self-talk. You remember when that teacher said you could never be a good mathematician. “You are horrible at math!” she blared out loud. The shame and embarrassment of what she said to you, not to mention anyone within ear shot, was enough for you to want to dig yourself a hole to hide in for the rest of your life. So, you went about all of your school years not trying to improve your math skills because after all, you are horrible at math. The result was that you felt not good enough, and you carried that thought into other parts of your life, like your job or your relationships.
Now is the time to reverse that way of thinking. You need to tell yourself that you are adequate! You are good and have talents that were given to you by God. You are able to succeed in your online business because you are a positive person and have thrown off those negative thoughts about yourself. You need to reverse the negative thinking and replace it with positive thinking. Try this little exercise daily:
Go into a room, close the door and tell your family to leave you alone for 30 minutes.
Write down all of the positive thoughts that come to your mind.
If you have anything in your life that is negative and sucking the life out of you…you need to be rid of it.
If someone has told you that you are stupid…counter that with a positive…I am a smart person!
If someone has told you that you are a horrible husband or wife…strike back with…I am a wonderful husband/wife.
If someone has told you that you are a fool for trying to succeed in your online business…give that statement a one, two punch by repeating over and over…I am extremely intelligent because I will succeed in my online business.
You can do this with any negative in your life…just turn it around to a positive statement that you repeat to yourself on a daily basis.
By repeating the positive statements you are telling your mind the very things that you believe. This is a long process and will it will not bear fruit for a while. You have to keep repeating these statements over and over again with anything that you are having problems with including your work and relationships.
When you do this for 30 minutes daily, you will gradually notice a change in yourself. You will find that you go about your life with a happy, positive attitude. You will notice that you don’t put yourself down as much as you used to and that you catch yourself when you start saying those negatives about you.
Write down all of the things that you are grateful for and make it a long list. Not only will your new positive self lift up your day but the gratitude you feel on a daily basis will give you the peace of mind and heart that will carry you on to a brighter tomorrow.
That positive attitude will carry you further in your online business than you could have ever imagined. It is this attitude that people will drift to when they see your videos and read your blog posts. It is this positive attitude that will attract new members in your company and make you into that successful online marketer that you and I know that you can be.
I have faith that you can do this…now what is left is that you have the faith that you can do this…and it all begins when you Apply Liberally and Rub Well…
I wish you all the Positive feelings that you could possibly hold and look forward to hearing your success stories as you move your business forward. Please share your comments and experiences below, thanks!
Wanda Mills
Enterprises by WJ, LLC
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