How To Be Happy? | Personal Success
Restored from the Empower Network archive (2011–2017), lightly edited to meet our current advertising standards. Views are the original author’s.
How To Be Happy & Have Personal Success
Everyone wants to know the answer to happiness. In fact true happiness leads many to living very successful lives. The answer to happiness is unique to every individual, yet there are two main rules that can be followed can lead you to finding inner peace and happiness.
Rule #1 – Love and Accept Yourself Exactly the Way You Are
You are a Greatest Creation of GOD Most High. According to scripture you were given dominion over the earth and all the creatures on earth, and no other of his creations are loved and cared for more than a human beings. So if GOD, the Most High and the Source of the entire universe, loves you so much and with such high regards, then you must also LOVE YOU.
I have been a health care professional for many years and have had the pleasure of meeting thousands of people with different health conditions. The people with the worst health conditions were also the most unhappy, and were the ones who carried the burden of, and the weight of their past experiences with them all the time.
Unhappiness starts in childhood, and mostly by the way you were treated by your parents and the people in your environment as you were growing up.
If you were not treated with unconditional love (being loved for who you are, and exactly the way you are), then you grew up feeling unworthy of love – which is a great source of unhappiness.
If you felt like no matter what you did and how well you did it, your parents always made you feel like you can’t do anything right, and made you feel like you are never good enough – that can really break us down emotionally and mentally.
We are all infinite being, and being an infinite being means we are capable of anything and everything. So when the people who are supposed to be our greatest fans and supporters (our parents), tell us we can never do anything right, that leads to another great source of unhappiness.
Rule #2 – Take The Time and Get Clear On What You Want
It has been found that the happiest people are those who have a clear vision of where they are going and what they want to accomplish, and once they set their vision on what they want they set out and accomplish it. In fact their vision is so clear, that when they describe it to anyone, the person hearing it, can see it clearly as well. Click HERE for a video of a 19 year old who retired from his regular job and discovered his WHY for success!
Now why don’t most people have the burning desire to go after what they really want, and set their sight on living their dream life?
The answer is our conditioning by our parents. For example, let say your parents told you the only way you can have success is to become highly educated and choose a career with a good income. But after doing what they said, you find out “the career with the income” does not make you happy. This in fact, has happened to so many people, and they choose to continue to live that way, instead of them realizing their unhappiness and choose to do something else that can in fact make them happy.
Think about it, if this is YOUR LIFE, why are your parents telling you what to do with YOUR LIFE? We were all born with the capacity to think for ourselves, and make the best decisions for ourselves. In fact the human mind is the most powerful force in the universe, every great invention since the beginning of time, started with a thought in a human mind.
I am not saying your parents’ opinions are not important, but I have found people who have made choices for themselves living much happier, more successful lives than those who didn’t.
If you really want to find “How to Be Happy” (which can also lead you to your greatest successes in life), I recommend Earl Nightingale – Lead The Field (6 CD UNABRIDGED + 1 CD Workbook) Audiobook CD, these recordings have taught me a lot about how precious, great and powerful we each are, and how we each possess our own greatest force in the universe, OUR MIND!
To Your Happiness & Success
Rouya Shamsai
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