Does someone really have to make you pay your child support?
Restored from the Empower Network archive (2011–2017), lightly edited to meet our current advertising standards. Views are the original author’s.
How does a person lie down so easily to have sex but when it comes time to pay your child support, act confused?
A lot of people only think about the enjoyment of having sex. The thought of taking care of a child appears to never cross their mind, during the act. This can be the fault of men and women, but mostly you hear about men.
Although you mostly hear about men and child support, there are women paying child support too. You can look at some child support statistics and see that in 2010, 54.9% of custodial single mothers were awarded child support and 30.4% of custodial single fathers were awarded child support.
I can’t recall ever hearing about a mother not paying child support in the news. Of course, we have heard about men not paying. It seems that it should be second nature to pay your child support. Whether you planned to have one or not. The child did not ask to be brought into this world, but you chose to have sex! Now you think you have a choice not to pay your child support.
It doesn’t work that way.
Let me ask a seemingly crazy question. How do celebrities, who generally have money, get into situations where they have not paid their child support? I don’t get it. I understand it may be a lot, but it is based off of your income. Child support shouldn’t be taking all of your money. If it is, you should have the money to get a lawyer to fix it!
Why does someone have to beg or force you to pay your child support?
I can wait……
Didn’t think there was a good answer.
This is a serious subject for me because I pay child support. I have a son that means the world to me and I am going to make sure he has what he needs. I would feel less of a man if I didn’t. Of course, we know that is not the case in this world we live in. I have heard of some men quitting their job because of child support.
If you can explain the logic of quitting your job not to pay your child support, I would love to hear it. How are you going to take care of yourself? Although your money may be tight, you will have some left after child support.
No job = No money
Is that the best solution you can come up with???
There is a saying, “If you can’t do the time, then don’t do the crime.” Well I say, “If you can’t take care of the child, then you should not be getting wild.” Ha Ha Ha
I have touched the subject of not paying child support. I cannot end this blog without touching the subject of parents using the child against the other parent. On this subject, I mostly hear about women doing this to men. Not to say it doesn’t happen the other way around. That child needs both parents. In my opinion, you do not have the right to use that child as a pawn to get what you want. Especially, if the other parent is doing what they are supposed to be doing. You wanting more does not justify keeping the child away.
Best scenario: two parents working together for the child. If you were married or in a relationship before, it is now about the child. You should not have an option of not work because you receive child support or have to pay your child support. Both parents are responsible for helping with the child!
I could go on and on over the subject, and probably will, but in another blog. If you are reading this blog and anything I wrote applies to you, GET IT TOGETHER!
You have a child and whether you are in the household with your child or not, that child needs you. Bottom line, PAY YOUR CHILD SUPPORT and figure out the rest.
To your prosperity,
Fredrick Hurt
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