The Best Answer to What Other People Think About YOU
Restored from the Empower Network archive (2011–2017), lightly edited to meet our current advertising standards. Views are the original author’s.
This is truth…
It’s none of your business what others think about you, and for some reason most people can never seam to get this through their head. I don’t want to be brash but it’s how I am.
Why Is that? Because for to damned long in my life I let other people say what I could and couldn’t do and for to long I held myself back because other people. This isn’t going to be some rant about how much I don’t care.
It’s going to be about why YOU Shouldn’t.
I’m begging you from the bottom of my heart to let go of what others think. The key to all happiness is to focus on one thing and one thing only … Your thoughts and what you think of you.
You know when you’re doing something wrong, when things arent adding up, but instead of focusing on what you’re doing that’s making you feel like shit you worry about what someone else is doing.
Whats this achieve? Excuses… Plain and simple. It flat creates lame excuses that tear your whole life up. And maye you don’t like the language I use in this post but plain and simple this will make it stick out and drive into your head that one of the biggest reasons people fail is because they get so consumed with what others think.
Trust me…
PLEASE TRUST ME… The minute in your life that you start looking inward and focusing on your thoughts only everything changes. EVERYTHING, and it’s freaking awesome(Don’t worry I don’t drop F-Bombs for no reason, only to really get things to stick out).
But seriously YOU owe it to yourself to make things happen in your life and you can do that fastest when you let no one hold you back?
But how do you get to the point where it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks? Honestly I can’t tell you once specific thing that will work for you, it’s sort of a culmination of events.
But at some point you have to look in the mirror and ask yourself this question…
Am I living my life for someone else?
If the answer is yes… You have a problem (Save if its yes for Children). That’s the most BadAss thing ever, so that’s totally separate from this. But as for anyone else
… The only person you should be living for is you.
This may sound selfish… And it is, but in a good way. When you’re truly living for yourself, you’ll not only help you, but you’ll help the people that really matter in your life.
And you may be afraid that you will lose friends. But the fact is that you never lose friends, true friends stick with you for life. Accuaintances come and go. Even enemies stick around longer than accuaintances and half the time they become your friends in the end.
Usually it’s because you realize how similar you are and that’s the reason you didn’t get along in the first place.
Back on track… You and your thoughts, your life… They are what counts, and I’ll tell you right now that you deserve everything the world has to offer regardless of what other people tell you. (Not to mention you can get it all too)
It’s just that simple.
If you’re looking for someone to help you break the fear of critisism and rejection connect with me on Facebook. And trust me, I can help you lose all of that crap… It’s what I do best, teach people how to believe in themselves again.
I LIVE FOR IT!
Take care Hank
p.s. How do you overcome the fear? Go take a look in the mirror and think about everything that you’ve overcome. And understand this … YOU are the source of all the power that is.
I believe in YOU!
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