{"id":4,"date":"2013-08-19T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2013-08-19T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/successtoyou\/five-lessons-about-the-way-we-treat-people\/"},"modified":"2013-08-19T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2013-08-19T00:00:00","slug":"five-lessons-about-the-way-we-treat-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/successtoyou\/five-lessons-about-the-way-we-treat-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Five Lessons About The Way We Treat People\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(heart warming lessons on life, authorship unknown)<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a01 \u2013 First Important Lesson \u2013 Cleaning Lady.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student<br \/>\nand had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall,<br \/>\ndark-haired and in her 50\u2032s, but how would I know her name?<\/p>\n<p>I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if<br \/>\nthe last question would count toward our quiz grade.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbsolutely,\u201d said the professor.. \u201cIn your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant\u2026<br \/>\nThey deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say \u201chello..\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve never forgotten that lesson.. I also learned her name was Dorothy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2 \u2013 Second Important Lesson \u2013 Pickup in the Rain<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rain storm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride.<br \/>\nSoaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960\u2032s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.<\/p>\n<p>She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man\u2019s door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home.<\/p>\n<p>A special note was attached.<\/p>\n<p>It read:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my<br \/>\nclothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband\u2019s bedside just before he passed away\u2026 God Bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.<br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\n3 \u2013 Third Important Lesson \u2013 Always remember those who serve.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow much is an ice cream sundae?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFifty cents,\u201d replied the waitress.<\/p>\n<p>The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWell, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?\u201d he inquired.<\/p>\n<p>By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient.\u00a0 \u201cThirty-five cents,\u201d she brusquely replied.<\/p>\n<p>The little boy again counted his coins. \u201cI\u2019ll have the plain ice cream,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies\u2026<\/p>\n<p>You see, he couldn\u2019t have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4 \u2013 Fourth Important Lesson. \u2013 The obstacle in Our Path.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if<br \/>\nanyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the King\u2019s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came<br \/>\nby and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear,<br \/>\nbut none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.<\/p>\n<p>Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the<br \/>\npeasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing<br \/>\nand straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed<br \/>\na purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note<br \/>\nfrom the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway.<br \/>\nThe peasant learned what many of us never understand!<\/p>\n<p><em>Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>5 \u2013 Fifth Important Lesson \u2013 Giving When it Counts\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare &amp; serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, \u201cYes I\u2019ll do it, if it will save her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded.<\/p>\n<p>He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, \u201cWill I start to die right away\u201d. Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.<\/p>\n<p>Lessons learned\u2026\u00a0<em>\u201dLive with no regrets, Treat people the way you want to be treated, Work like you don\u2019t need the money, Love like\u00a0you\u2019ve\u00a0never been hurt, and Dance like you do when nobody\u2019s watching.\u201d<br \/>\nYou never know how or when you\u2019ll be paid!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(heart warming lessons on life, authorship unknown) \u00a01 \u2013 First Important Lesson \u2013 Cleaning Lady. During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. 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