{"id":4,"date":"2012-07-14T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-07-14T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/hanserteam\/our-watermelon-story\/"},"modified":"2026-07-12T01:42:30","modified_gmt":"2026-07-12T01:42:30","slug":"our-watermelon-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/hanserteam\/our-watermelon-story\/","title":{"rendered":"Our Watermelon Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By the time you finish reading this page, you\u2019ll will feel a RUSH of motivation and a DRIVE to say \u201cF-U\u201d to all the people in your life that tell you you \u201ccan\u2019t\u201d do something. I have to relate this to the online marketing space, because that\u2019s one of the only places I\u2019ve been able to OWN my successes.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had a lot of success in my life, and some <strong>EPIC<\/strong> failures. The further on you read, you\u2019ll begin to understand what drives me and I hope for you, that you find what drives you.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine what it would be like if you could just have some little successes, some pint sized results from all of your hours on the internet. Late nights, too much coffee, <strong>blurred vision<\/strong> staring at the screen, imagine if that actually amounted to a <em>real, visible, tangible result<\/em>. <strong>Just think about it<\/strong>\u2026 you place an ad, or write a <a href=\"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/blogging\/\">blog post<\/a>, and someone actually sees it and acknowledges that it\u2019s there. Isn\u2019t that what we all really want? To know that someone sees us?<\/p>\n<p>In a moment, <em>I\u2019ll tell you<\/em> exactly what I\u2019ve personally done to increase by subscriber list sell more products online and make more money in the past 68 days online, than in the previous 7 months \u2013 and the great thing about it, is no one really knows yet \u2013 but you\u2019re here, so you get to be inside.<\/p>\n<p>Most people I talk to or meet online, have absolutely no idea what I do. Even people I meet in person (even my wife is perplexed with what I do on the internet all the time\u2026). We sat with her friend for coffee a while back, and she asked me \u2014 what\u2019s all this online stuff \u2013 really \u2013 does it work? What do you even do with it? Well I didn\u2019t really have an answer, because sometimes I don\u2019t even know what I\u2019m doing, but <em>it\u2019s working.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>It All Started With Splatter Paint<\/h2>\n<p>Creating and thinking outside the box is something I love. Because I put myself in a box a long time ago, I stopped myself from getting to the core of what this creativity could mean for me. <\/p>\n<p>This is a painting an old friend of mine and me did together on his front lawn. I had no clue what I was doing. He gave me some paint, a canvas, and I went to town. After, he painted over it in some parts, so the final result was more of a collaboration\u2026. I have it up in my office. Every time someone comes in, regardless of how long I have it up, I get a comment.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDid you do that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWow \u2014 where did you get that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s sort of funny how I came to be where I am in my life.<\/p>\n<p>I was a <strong>trouble maker<\/strong> as a kid,<strong> dropped out of high school<\/strong> (after attending <strong>4 different schools in 4 years<\/strong>), somehow got into college, and I went down the road of \u201cfinancial planning\u201d because that\u2019s the picture of wealth I had from a family member.<\/p>\n<p>My upbringing I was taught to get an education, study, keep a low profile, don\u2019t make a scene (didn\u2019t really listed\u2026). God willing I did ok, struggled a bit but graduated and got a really great job supporting some of the top top people in our business. The benefit of this job was meeting the right people, but more important was I was able to get creative. I have a feeling this is because my creativity and passion for making things perfect was able to shine. It had been bottled up for so long, that I had an outlet. It was on a spreadsheet, but it\u2019s amazing how creative you can be with some numbers <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2012\/07\/icon_smile.gif\" alt=\":)\" class=\"wp-smiley\"\/>  I \u201ctried\u201d going out on my own and positioning myself in the market, prospecting for business, knocking on doors, and doing all the things I \u201cthought\u201d I wanted to do. I had a miserable time, cried more than laughed, and had next to NO money.<\/p>\n<p>Funny thing is that I was drawn to the internet. I started a website for my business, started blogging, learning about advertising online and in print, started doing short info videos, and really all the things that I see online now in the internet marketing\/affiliate marketing space. Long story short, I ran out of money. It didn\u2019t work out in the long run, for some other reasons, but the main point was that <strong>I saw something on the internet that I could do<\/strong> \u2013 some potential, some<em> incling of hope<\/em>. <em> Are you beginning to see<\/em> where my journey started?<\/p>\n<p>This was around 5 years ago. <strong>No excuses<\/strong>, it didn\u2019t work out. Financially there were insane commitments and I had personally made some stupid financial decisions. This led me and my family into a situation I wouldn\u2019t wish on my worst enemies, which we are out of now, but it is still such a close thought that <strong>I shutter<\/strong> every time there is a phonecall (from anyone\u2026). The positive in this, is now I actually understand how fragile life can be. How close we all are to having our lives changed, for good or for bad.<\/p>\n<h2>The Creepy Emails That Started My Journey Down The Rabbit Hole Of Internet Domination<\/h2>\n<p><em>Since you\u2019re still here, I\u2019m going to assume<\/em> you really want to know how I became an EPIC failure in all types of marketing. Here it is.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>\u201cHey! I see you also have a <a href=\"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/watch\/\">home business<\/a>?! What do you do?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Love to connect,<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Darren.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>That was my prospecting intro\u2026 I would go on facebook, search groups like \u201chome business\u201d, \u201cMLM Sucks in Ohio\u201d, \u201cBiz Opp For Junkies In Toledo\u201d, \u201cEpic Failures are Welcome \u2013 Spam Allowed \u2013 Come one come all, no one will buy anything\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>Sorry I just gagged. Nasty memories.<\/p>\n<p>So you see how creepy that is? I would try and find people I had things in common with, then randomly send a chat message\u2026 who does that!? Actually I got recruited into a company that way twice, so I guess I learned wrong from the start.<\/p>\n<p>All this while I was watching insane amounts of webinars, training videos, listening to audios in my<\/p>\n<p>car, and<strong> \u201ctalking the talk\u201d, while having NO CLUE what the hell I was doing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>These were my successes over 7 months:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Sold 1 copy of Magnetic Sponsoring<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Sold 2 copies of a Todd Falcone book<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Generated 16 leads in MLSP<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n<p>** I signed up my brother into my first <a href=\"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/blog\/category\/marketing\/\">network marketing<\/a> company, and <strong>pissed off EVERY friend<\/strong> of mine from highschool.<\/p>\n<p>Oh ya I almost forgot!! I sold 3 people some weight loss shakes, and made my 11 year old next door neighbor idolize me because I had awesome coins\u2026<\/p>\n<h2>Chaos Theory AKA The Butterfly Effect<\/h2>\n<p><em>My past has 100% created my present, <strong>and yours<\/strong> (keep reading I\u2019ll explain).<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As your view of my life continues to expand, <strong>imagine a time<\/strong> when you thought you had complete control over your life.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine that <strong>right in front of your eyes, a solution appeared<\/strong> out of nowhere, and you question where it was all these years, through failures, life changing events, children, marriages, death.<\/p>\n<p>Years of suffering, and then something rises up like a pheonix.<\/p>\n<p>There are <strong>2 choices.<\/strong> You accept and chalk up your past failures as experiences, or judge the solution and keep walking.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3158 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2012\/07\/butterfly-effect-300x163-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"163\"\/><\/p>\n<p><em>As time passes by<\/em> I realize that every single choice I made in the past, however insignificant I imagined it to be at the time, has created results in amazing proportions. The blog I tried to create, the videos I made, the online leads I tried to generate, the phone calls at night in my office, seeing people and trying to \u201csell\u201d them things they didn\u2019t want or couldn\u2019t afford, working for people\u2019s dreams\u2026<\/p>\n<p>All those experiences have caused my current clarity.<\/p>\n<p>All of the people I met, friends I made and lost, troubles I had as a kid and throughout my life, were all part of <strong>my own butterfly effect<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>They were all part and parcel of my life today.<\/p>\n<p>Without them, <strong>you wouldn\u2019t be reading this.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My life 10 years ago, effected your life today, and will effect thousands of others.<\/p>\n<h3>Now I want your unconscious mind to listen very carefully to your feelings right now.<\/h3>\n<p><span>What does this mean for you and your life?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Let\u2019s face another harsh reality<\/strong>. Only 1-2% of people who understand this fact, will EVER act on it and change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Since you now see this clearly,<\/strong> it\u2019s vital that the 1% of us that read this fully take action everyday on our goals. No one else\u2019s, our own. <em>Agree<\/em>?<\/p>\n<h2>If It Walks Like A Duck, It Must Be A Watermelon<\/h2>\n<p><em>You are ready for success, aren\u2019t you?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>In a moment, you\u2019ll find out <\/strong>how I use my distaste for watermelon to attract success.<\/p>\n<p>Like a watermelon, we are sometimes confused about what we are. The watermelon is a fruit \u2013 not a melon. It\u2019s called a melon, it looks like a melon, but it ain\u2019t no melon!<\/p>\n<p>Here are all the names we use to tell people what we do.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cinternet marketing\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cinternet marketer\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201conline <a href=\"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/courses\/team-building-formula\/\">network marketing<\/a>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201csocial media marketer\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to cover up bullshit with bullshit <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2012\/07\/icon_smile.gif\" alt=\":)\" class=\"wp-smiley\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>Just get it straight \u2013 <strong>the only time we make money, is when people buy stuff.<\/strong> No one gets paid to MARKET anything.<\/p>\n<p>Marketing is HOW we get our message out to people. If you saw Frank Kern\u2019s \u201cState of the Internet Address\u201d, which was hillarious if you stayed until the end, he made a great point. All Internet Marketing is, is using the internet, to get the right message, to the right people, at the right time. That\u2019s it! And the message, needs to include a BUY button!!<\/p>\n<p>If you get paid to coach people, great \u2013 you\u2019re a coach, and you can call yourself whatever the hell you want.<\/p>\n<p>But if you don\u2019t get paid to coach, train, develop, build, or any other fancy word, just tell people what you are \u2014 A WATERMELON!<\/p>\n<p><strong>You know what I mean, don\u2019t you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s a secret &#8211;<\/strong> It\u2019s ok and accepted to be who you are. Especially online \u2013 if you want a following of people that actually know you, who else can you be!?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s another secret:<\/strong> I don\u2019t really like watermelon. I don\u2019t like strawberries and chocolate either. My wife LOOOVES it. She could live on watermelon alone \u2013 I would starve, she would thrive \u2013 C\u2019est la vie.<\/p>\n<p>In this page are the answers I told you I would provide. They may not be clear now, but <strong>in time you will see.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Now that you\u2019re at the end of this article you\u2019re just <em>minutes away<\/em> from the <span><strong>feeling of pure joy<\/strong><\/span>, knowing that you can do this.<\/h3>\n<h3>You can <em>be a success on the internet<\/em>.<\/h3>\n<h3>You can, and <em>no one can stop you.<\/em><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By the time you finish reading this page, you\u2019ll will feel a RUSH of motivation and a DRIVE to say \u201cF-U\u201d to all the people in your life that tell you you \u201ccan\u2019t\u201d do something. 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