{"id":120,"date":"2012-10-03T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-10-03T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/genhorrall\/shoulda-woulda-coulda\/"},"modified":"2012-10-03T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2012-10-03T00:00:00","slug":"shoulda-woulda-coulda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/genhorrall\/shoulda-woulda-coulda\/","title":{"rendered":"Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let me introduce you to the Oulda Triplets.\u00a0 They are pretty darn famous in their own right.\u00a0 <em>It seems that everyone knows them<\/em>.\u00a0 And boy can they cause you some major problems if you get hung up on them.\u00a0 Let me give you a few examples.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I shoulda \u00a0bought that when I had the chance, now everyone has one and I wish I did.<\/li>\n<li>I woulda done that to, but the stars did not line up for me.<\/li>\n<li>I coulda done that.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"\/genhorrall\/blog\/shoulda-woulda-coulda\/shouldawouldacoulda\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-319\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-319 aligncenter\" src=\"\/genhorrall\/files\/2012\/10\/shouldawouldacoulda-293x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"293\" height=\"300\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>They all <em>seem<\/em> pretty harmless when you look at them this way.\u00a0\u00a0 They all <em>sound<\/em> pretty harmless when say them.\u00a0 But they are keeping you from having what you want in like.\u00a0 <span style=\"color: #800000\">They are stealing you dreams they are stealing your confidence, they are stealing your ability to create what you want in life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I know when I was younger and newly married my husband got me this Jeff Foxworthy tape.\u00a0 (Yeah I am dating myself a little, but who cares.)\u00a0 You know the guy that makes all the redneck jokes.\u00a0 My husband still does not know what he was thinking but he married a hick and these jokes crack me up, because most of these jokes apply to my family in some way.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Jeff had this joke on there about redneck words, one of them was ustacould.\u00a0 Meaning basically that I used to be able to do that.\u00a0 And it had a cousin mightacould.\u00a0 As in \u201cif you give me a minute, I mightacould again\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Like I said I grew up in a redneck household and environment. \u00a0Hello I spent most of my life in the country and in Texas.\u00a0 It was unavoidable.\u00a0 Now I am not really picking on rednecks, but rather the mindset that goes along with being a redneck.\u00a0 And it includes a lot of this vocabulary.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It is something I was raised in and I did not know that it was harming me in anyway.\u00a0 <em>Until I started to really study the people I wanted to be more like<\/em>.\u00a0 Those that were able to <span style=\"color: #800000\">create success<\/span> and make it doing something that they loved.\u00a0 They did not use the dreaded triplets.\u00a0 I could not find it anywhere in their vocabularies, especially when they were discussing how they talked to themselves.\u00a0 And how they taught others to think.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>See the entire Oulda family is nothing more than limiting. <span style=\"color: #800000\">They limit how you think, the limit what you think you are capable of doing<\/span>.\u00a0 They basically keep you from success and give you a reason to create excuses.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So let me share with you some replacements for these limiters.\u00a0 So instead of using ol\u2019 shoulda , it is better to say when, woulda can be replaced with will, and to round out the experience replace coulda with did.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #800000\">When<\/span> I buy that it is going to be so awesome because I really want that.<\/li>\n<li>It <span style=\"color: #800000\">will<\/span> be so awesome that I did that.<\/li>\n<li>I <span style=\"color: #800000\">did<\/span> do that.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It might all seem a little silly and you might still think of them as just words.\u00a0 But as you already know and I have been talking about here often is that self talk is super duper important.\u00a0 <em>Mindset is one of the biggest keys to success<\/em>, just ask anyone that got there from where you are now.\u00a0 <strong>It happens every day and anyone can do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Happiness, Health, Wealth, and Freedom!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Gen<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u201cThe Mindset Master\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> I made a decision to live my life after watching <a href=\"\/commissionloophole.php?id=genhorrall\" target=\"_blank\">a cheesy video<\/a>.\u00a0 You can too, just decide to get in now!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let me introduce you to the Oulda Triplets.\u00a0 They are pretty darn famous in their own right.\u00a0 It seems that everyone knows them.\u00a0 And boy can they cause you some major problems if you get hung up on them.\u00a0 Let me give you a few examples. \u00a0 I shoulda \u00a0bought that when I had the 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