{"id":8,"date":"2012-06-18T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-06-18T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/catalex\/?p=8"},"modified":"2026-07-31T20:15:31","modified_gmt":"2026-07-31T20:15:31","slug":"are-you-worthy-of-being-joined-the-virtue-in-taking-self-responsibility-first","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/empowernetwork.com\/catalex\/are-you-worthy-of-being-joined-the-virtue-in-taking-self-responsibility-first\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you worthy of being joined? | The virtue in taking self-responsibility first"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/are-you-worthy-of-being-joined-the-virtue-in-taking-self-responsibility-first\/\" target=\"_blank\">Are you worthy of being joined? | The virtue in taking self-responsibility first<\/a><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center\">by Cat<\/h2>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/responsibiity-to-choose.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/responsibiity-to-choose.jpg\" alt=\"Virtue of Self responsibility\" width=\"134\" height=\"102\"\/><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\"><strong>What do you mean <em>I am responsible for where I am?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\">I can\u2019t be responsible for this mess, I didn\u2019t cause all those things to happen.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000000\">Does that sound familiar?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\">Are you in the habit of blaming anything and everything for your problems BUT You?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\">Does this sound like you are possessing the<strong> Virtue<\/strong> of taking responsibility?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\">I know its human nature to blame someone else, ever since Adam and Eve, mankind has been doing just that. But the truth is that its no one else\u2019s fault but your own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\">No, we can\u2019t control circumstances but we can control how we react to them, which in turn controls the outcome of the circumstance.<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/thinkexist.com\/quotes\/charles_r._swindoll\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> Charles Swindoll<\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000\">sums it up nicely:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">\u201cThe longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.\u00a0It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">It will make or break a company\u2026 a church\u2026 a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past\u2026 we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, <em>and that is our attitude.<\/em> I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you\u2026 we are in charge of our Attitudes.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000000\">The virtue in taking self-responsibility<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/reputation-silent-killers-purpose-and-integrity-in-marketing-perception-equals-reality\/\">Being a person of <span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>Virtue<\/em><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\">: someone that is dependable, credible, worthy of joining up with,\u00a0 is essential for any successful business person and it begins with taking self-responsibility for what is occurring in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #000000\"><strong>Being a person of virtue that is worthy of joining means you can:<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">Be trusted to honor your word (\u201cYes\u201d means <strong>yes<\/strong>, \u201cNo\u201d means <strong>no<\/strong>.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">You will follow through with<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/reputation-silent-killers-purpose-and-integrity-in-marketing-perception-equals-reality\/\">your commitments<\/a>\u00a0<span style=\"color: #000000\">(In my world, promises are never required <em>because<\/em>\u00a0my \u201cYes\u201d simply means yes, as my \u201cNo\u201d simply means no and hold myself to the standard of making good on my word.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">You offer training and assistance (within reason, of course)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">Honor your contracts, service requests or product sales<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">Give refunds if you can\u2019t honor contracts<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">Have a duplicatable system<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">You\u2019re not afraid to say \u201cI don\u2019t know\u201d or admit when you\u2019re wrong<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000\">You truly want to see your members succeed too<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/\" rel=\"dofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/virtue.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"141\" height=\"102\"\/><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\">The Virtue of taking<\/span> <a href=\"\/catalex\/blog\/actionable-steps-to-success\/?id=catalex\" target=\"_blank\">self-responsibility<\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000\">is nothing more than accepting the consequences of your actions \u2013 or \u2013 being willing to be held responsible when things get messed up.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>Simply put, you don\u2019t blame others for your problems!<\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A person of Virtue finds answers or solutions to resolve the issue at hand instead of whining about it and <a title=\"So You Had a Bad Day: Change your focus, Change your day\" href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/so-you-had-a-bad-day-change-your-focus-change-your-day\/\" target=\"_blank\">refusing to take action<\/a>. Only then can you honestly say to yourself that, yes, you are worthy to be joined.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Catherine-Alexandra.com<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\"> is a reputable site run by<\/span><a title=\"Catherine Alexandra\" href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/tag\/catherine-alexandra\/\">Catherine Alexandra<\/a>,<span style=\"color: #000000\">a woman of Virtue that desires to help others reach their goals and that honors her word in all that she does. To find out more about her simply<\/span> <a title=\"Catherine Alexandra: \u201cCatherine the Great\u201d | A True Marketing Leader\u2019s Recommendations\" href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/catherine-alexandra-catherine-the-great-a-true-marketing-leaders-recommendations\/\" target=\"_blank\">click the link here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #3366ff\">DROP\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/fanpage\/\" rel=\"dofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff\">ME<\/span><\/a>\u00a0A COMMENT AND TELL\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/about\/\" rel=\"dofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff\">ME<\/span><\/a>\u00a0WHAT YOU THOUGHT! If you enjoyed <a href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/are-you-worthy-of-being-joined-the-virtue-in-taking-self-responsibility-first\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff\">Are you worthy of being joined? | The virtue in taking self-responsibility first<\/span><\/a> or found it helpful, share it by clicking those SHARE buttons!<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>PS: If you want to find out more about a Great Business Opportunity built by people that take having Virtue in self-responsibility seriously, that <a title=\"Cat recommends\" href=\"http:\/\/www.catherine-alexandra.com\/about\/cat-recommends\/\" rel=\"dofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Cat recommends<\/a> then <a href=\"http:\/\/digitalwebinars.com\/531\/4qk1iyoxqj\/webinar-register.php?affiliate=catalex\" target=\"_blank\">check out this webinar<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you worthy of being joined? | The virtue in taking self-responsibility first by Cat What do you mean I am responsible for where I am? I can\u2019t be responsible for this mess, I didn\u2019t cause all those things to happen. Does that sound familiar? 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