I forgot how fun it is! \u2026 I remembered how fun it is!<\/p>\n
Which would you choose to say? If you picked the word remembered you are honoring yourself, instead of accusing yourself of forgetting.<\/p>\n
Imagine the person in your life who says, I should, I have to I need to, I hate when.. I am forced to\u2026 Yes but I\u2019m working on it: Notice the negative energy being created? This is your life imagine your self stepping up to that person and asking them not to use those words around you. Imagine that person instead using this language, I did not, I\u2019m thinking about, I want to, I love when, I\u2019m choosing to, Yes and I am having fun changing this! Can you feel a difference just in your imagination with some one else saying these things to you? Now feel how powerful the change will be when you change your own words! Getting from a victim language to a Creator language.<\/p>\n
What do you do when someone compliments you? Do you immediately disagree with them? Do you thank them? or do you just acknowledge that this person knows what they are talking about?<\/p>\n
here is a pretend conversation<\/p>\n
\u201cBecky, you are so beautiful,\u201d Becky replies \u201cNo, I\u2019m not\u201d<\/p>\n
Becky not only doesn\u2019t think she is beautiful she is invalidating the opinion of the person speaking with her, dragging them down.<\/p>\n
Now imagine Becky responding like this instead, \u201cBecky, you are so beautiful,\u201d \u00a0Becky responds, \u201cThank You, I KNOW!\u201d What is your first emotional response to Becky\u2019s reply? If it made you uncomfortable notice Becky isn\u2019t being cocky she is edifying you for your opinion. How does that make you feel? Are you still uncomfortable? If so this shows you have some love you need to give yourself. So go and stand in front of a mirror and sincerely compliment yourself for 15 minutes using only absolute language, no try, or moderation words only using Firm compliments. I Love my! I am so great at! When I (fill in the action of your choice) I know I am a good person! \u201cI am wonderful! I deserve to live! I have the right to be happy! I choose to be happy!\u201d the ones in quotations are ones I said to myself every day for a year till I believed them.<\/p>\n
I did this at 14 after my mom sent me through a life changing program because I had been cutting my wrists. If I hadn\u2019t done these things, my life would be very different. Instead of Limo\u2019s five star hotels and first class airfare, I could be in alleyways and card board boxes. There were times when that was a real possibility but because of changing my language, because I chose to be accountable and realize every thing in my life is my choice, I chose to see alternatives to what seemed like inevitable conclusions to extreme circumstances.<\/p>\n
Now finish this sentence for yourself:<\/p>\n
My Life is wonderful because I do these five things Daily! My daily actions are (now here is where you search your heart and find the five things about the person you want to be and name them!!!!)<\/p>\n
Do this Daily and in a year you will begin to see a difference! As you notice the difference so will others, and soon you will be exactly where you want to be!<\/p>\n
Some examples of the fantastic five things are: I give a sincere compliment to every person I meet! I commit to compliment and appreciate myself in all my success and all failure always giving myself unconditional love and support! I find some thing to be grateful for as soon as I wake up! I find something good in every situation! I give sincere words of appreciation to my loved ones daily! Every night I write down a list of every blessing from through out my day!<\/p>\n
Your five things may change as you progress through life depending on where your heart is telling you what direction will most benefit you, and that is okay! Allow yourself the space to be where you are at and give yourself love in that space! Knowing everything is perfect as is!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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